IFS, Grief and Loss
THis video describes how the system responds to loss
Finding My Way In By Finding My Own Parts – Erich Moraine
Erich describes his journey to becoming a more Self-led therapist. "I caught the first few glimpses of this Self-like manager I named the striver/therapist when I heard mixed reviews as part of my feedback during the practice sessions. This striver part was definitely in charge and focused all of his/my energy on creating a breakthrough for my practice clients, no matter what."
Our Bodies? Our Selves? – Susan McConnell
"Parts have bodies, parts are located in the body, and parts may use the body to perform their protective or reactive functions. Weight gain may be an attempt to protect the tender core from repeated boundary violations, or to prevent unwanted sexual interest; weight loss may be an effort to provide a sense of control."
Let Your Clients Help You Heal – Dick Schwartz
"Whether an impasse or vicious cycle is triggered by therapist or client, the onus is on us as therapists—not to always remain Self-led because that’s impossible—but to return to Self-leadership when we’ve lost it and nip vicious cycles in the bud."
IFS and Mindfulness Meditation – Paul Ginter Ed.D.
"With IFS, there is the understanding that if one part changes, it will inevitably affect other parts within the system. Likewise, the concept of interbeing in mindfulness suggests a profound level of connection between all things."
An Interview with Dick Schwartz Ellen Pritsker, 1999
Dick Schwartz, 1999: "I believe this work can change society, change the way people understand and relate to one another, both as individuals and as groups."
Grief: Mapping the Terrain
This post by Derek offers an overview and critique of contemporary bereavement theory and suggests some guiding principles in working with the bereaved from an IFS perspective. There is also a link to a video which demonstrates through role-play the application of the IFS method to bereavement.
IFS and Relationships
This brief (10 minute) video describes the four typical responses to tension experienced in a relationship. It invites the discovery of the internal dynamics informing the tension, and describes how to communicate in a Self-led way.
'You Are Not Alone' – Freedomain Radio Interviews Dr Richard Schwartz
Uploaded to YouTube in early 2010 by Stefan Molyneux, this is a 50 minute radio interview with Dick Schwartz.
On croit qu'on a des problèmes… (You think you have problems…)
Lead trainer Francois Le Doze presents the model at a TedX event. Mike Elkin says of this talk "I was moved and awed by your sincerity, your eloquence, and your deep understanding of the model." The talk is in French with English subtitles - there is also a link to IFS Francophonie, a great site for French speakers.